009 — L’envers du désir

Cet épisode prend forme initialement autour d’une réflexion sur la vie (en apparence extraordinaire) d’Anthony Bourdain pour ensuite converger vers une question qui semble importante dans le contexte moderne — comment fonctionnent les mécanismes du désir, dans la vraie vie et quel est l’envers du décor?

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Références

01:32 — Bourdain (Il s’avère qu’il a eu d’autres séries au delà de No Reservations (2005-2012) et Parts Unknown (2013-2018) — wiki.

03:20 — Late Bloomer, long player

04:15 — Kitchen confidential (mandatoire de l’écouter en livre audio Audible)

07:03 — Profil du NYT sur la nouvelle biographie de Bourdain. “I hate my fans, too. I hate being famous. I hate my job,” Mr. Bourdain wrote to Ms. Busia-Bourdain in one of their near-daily text exchanges. “I am lonely and living in constant uncertainty.”

15:30 — Dunbar number (”a suggested cognitive limit to the number of people with whom one can maintain stable social relationships—relationships in which an individual knows who each person is and how each person relates to every other person. This number was first proposed in the 1990s by British anthropologist Robin Dunbar”)

16:27 — E.O. Wilson “The real problem of humanity is the following: we have palaeolithic emotions, medieval institutions and godlike technology.”

18:30 — Context is that which is scarce

19:10 — Sur la question du désir Four noble truths of Buddhism (En Sanskrit — dukkha arises taṇhā ("craving, desire or attachment, lit. "thirst") (wiki)

21:55 — Jealousy vs. Envy

31:15 — Nietzsche: Ressentiment

32:05 — Santé mentale et adolescents (”a psychology professor at San Diego State University, found that teens who spend five or more hours a day online are nearly twice as likely to have suicidal tendencies as those who spend less than an hour” (source). —— UNICEF: “An estimated 13 per cent of adolescents aged 10–19 is estimated to live with a diagnosed mental disorder.”

32:06 — Coddling of the American mind

32:21 — Jonathan Haidt: “Why the Past 10 Years of American Life Have Been Uniquely Stupid”

32:50 — The social dilemma

37:15 — Time person of the year 2006: “you”

45:35 — Mudita — sympathetic joy